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No special plans on this Memorial Day weekend (for non US folks: We have a three day weekend; Monday is off for shopping mall sales to remember war dead.)

I was finally able to give blood; my attempt on 5/9 was aborted when they put the needle through my vein.

Yesterday the charge nurse abdicated to one of the LVNs who was amazingly skilled; she had to play the needle back and forth in the vein. It was an opportunity for me to breath, soft-belly, into the pain. Just as I saw exasperation on her face, the other nurses watching gave a collective, "whoa!" and dark color filled the tubing on my arm. I filled the donation bag quickly, as well as the 8 vials for various tests including qualification for apheresis (finally!) Once I qualify, I will be able to donate platelets twice a month. Whole blood is every 54 days.


The LVN called me kiddo and I said, "Anyone who calls me kiddo when I'm 40 is my new best friend." She put her face next to mine, peered closely and said, "I would never have guessed" and then they other nurses came by to cluck agreement. Up-righting her self she threw her head back and announced, "You have a youthful look. You always will." I laughed and said, "My immaturity shines right through."

It was a light hearted time; earlier when the health history nurse was taking a sample for the hemoglobin reading she said, "will you pass the hemoglobin test?" I suppose she asked based on my pale face. I said, "absolutely." The reading was 15g/dl (just fine) and she raised an eyebrow, "What's your secret?" I replied, "Beef. Lots of red meat. A side a week."

On holiday weekends, the Stanford Blood Center gives away t-shirts to encourage donations. I had never seen it so mobbed. Who knew people will donate blood for a t-shirt? I now am the owner soft beige shirt from American Apparel that has the green-arrow recycling logo on it and the text: I recycle life (Stanford Blood Center.)

It may seem silly, such a small thing, but it brings me great joy. To give - something - to help. I am still on sabbatical from hospice and there's a gap in my calendar for volunteering. I'm debating a few options - working at the local domestic violence shelter, visiting in-bound elderly, literacy for adults. I have a time budget of four hours per week.

If you have volunteer ideas, I'm all ears. Uhm, eyes ;-)

Date: 2009-05-24 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brian1789.livejournal.com
Congratulations on your persistence and service to others. :)

Date: 2009-05-24 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stef-tm.livejournal.com
Thanks! I know you donate blood, too. So sorry about the kitty, btw.

Date: 2009-05-24 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 6-bleen-7.livejournal.com
That's great that you're a regular donor. They're always delighted to take my O–, but the last time I gave blood I just about passed out. So my wife (also O–) have to donate for both of us.

Date: 2009-05-24 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stef-tm.livejournal.com
That's what spouses are for! ;-)
I enjoy the tangible nature of giving blood - though Stanford will yank donations for research efforts.

Date: 2009-05-24 05:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tenacious-snail.livejournal.com
You can volunteer to help me prep the house, paint or move.

Date: 2009-05-24 05:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stef-tm.livejournal.com
How about paint? What's the schedule?
Will you supply fizzy water ;-)

Date: 2009-05-24 05:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com
You do have a youthful look. I wouldn't have known how old you were when i met you <3 i was actually not sure it was you walking into the restaurant because you looked so young, but then i recognized you from your userpic.
thank you for donating - i can't because of the meds i'm on, and it makes me sad, because my dad did it most of his life and i wanted to carry that on. (although! soon i'll be able to take blood from other people <3)

Date: 2009-05-24 05:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stef-tm.livejournal.com
I will totally have to donate blood in Seattle sometime so you can take it :-) I hope to visit soon. My parents are planning to move and are choosing among the suburbs of Vancouver, Toronto, and D.C.

Right arm, center vein, please.

Date: 2009-05-24 05:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yaaresse.livejournal.com
I'm glad someone is taking up my blood donor slack. I always come in under the hemoglobin levels they want. (I've been told it's due to the whacky genes, but WTF does pigment have to do with hemoglobin?)

Well, if you're desperate to volunteer, how are you at finding adoptive homes for older, spoiled rotten, very shy, strictly-indoor cats? I'm certainly not having any luck up here. :(

Seriously though, what about tutoring math or science for a high school (or summer school)? Most schools have had budgets cut back so hard that they are begging for help. Or Sacred Heart in San Jose is forever looking for help with their job skills programs.

Date: 2009-05-24 07:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] i-maenad.livejournal.com
Good for you! I'm a universal donor & would love to do that, but they don't like my friends. Sad.

Date: 2009-05-24 08:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maetang.livejournal.com
Well done for donating blood! Good luck with the volunteering.

*hugs*

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